1. No one is standing there waiting to give you a big gold star no matter how much of an over-achiever you may be. 无论你在多大程度上做到超越自我,也不会有人在那等着你为你颁发一个大大的金牌。
2. I was trapped by self-imposed expectations and continually reset the bar so it was always out of reach, the fatal flaw of any classic over-achiever. 我陷入一种思维定式,把各种目标强加到自己身上,而且总是不断调高预期,让自己永远都够不着,这是典型的完美主义者的臭毛病。