1. Ensure that you pick your way carefully through any such minefields and remain calm and confident as you do so. 确保在这种危机四伏的情况下仔细地挑选你的路，像往常一样保持冷静和信心。
2. Now pick an activity that USES one of your signature strengths. It may already be on your favorite activity list, or you may want to think of a new way to use a strength. 现在，使用你的个人优势之一选择一个活动，他可能已经在你最喜欢的活动列表当中了，或者你可以考虑去用一个新的方式来发挥你的优势。
3. On the way to pick him up, you need to get something for dinner, which gives you about ten minutes with your father for tea and a visit. 在接你儿子的路上，你需要买些东西准备晚饭，这让只留给你和你的父亲大约十分钟的时间一起喝杯茶。
4. When writing, you can pick your words exactly, and by communicating that way, you allow the other person to react privately, with time for reflection. 在书写时，你能准确地选择词语，而且以这个方式交流，你能让别人有考虑的时间来私底下做出反应。
5. The fastest, most secure, and safest way to transport multiple terabytes of data is to pick up your hard drive and physically carry it with you to another location. 传送几个T的数据的最快速、最保密、最安全的方式是，拿出你的硬盘、物理地把它携带到另一个地方。
